TLC - Flaming Idols
T-Boz, Left Eye, and Chili were ahead of their time. They were crazy, sexy, and not too cool to be sex educators, using condoms as accessories to start conversations about safer sex. They gave us power songs about following your dreams and not changing your body to fit what somebody else likes. They talked about AIDS and alcoholism, keeping it real in an industry full of songs about money and rides until the death of Left Eye ended the group all to soon. Rest in power, Left Eye. We'll never forget the time you set your abuser's shoes on fire - keep giving' em hell wherever you are!
You might light this candle and look to TLC for inspiration and guidance in: staying safe during sexy times, standing up for yourself, dealing with grief/loss.